How hymenoplasty can help regaining Virginity

The hymen and reasons of its rupture

The hymen is a thin skin membrane made up of elastic and fibrous tissue that partially covers the vaginal opening in some females. The hymen can vary in size, shape, thickness, vascularity, and pliability from person to person. Hymen can be stretched or torn through various activities. Some common reasons why hymen rupture may occur: -

• Sexual Intercourse:- The hymen can rupture during sexual intercourse, particularly during penetration. However, it is important to note that the presence or absence of an intact hymen is not a reliable indicator of sexual activity in medical or scientific terms. 
• Tampon Use: - Inserting a tampon into vagina can stretch or tear the hymen. This is a common way that many females experience hymen rupture. 
• Physical activities: - Certain types of physical activities such as horse riding, vigorous exercises, sports, and gymnastics can put pressure on the hymen that causes it to tear. 
• Medical Exams: - During a gynecological exam, the doctor may inadvertently stretch or tear the hymen while inserting a speculum or performing other procedures.
• Accidental Trauma: - In some cases, the hymen can be torn due to accidental traumas such as a fall or injury to the pelvic area. 
• By birth: - Most importantly, we must know that it is very much possible that some women are born without a hymen or have a hymen that is so thin and delicate that it is barely noticeable. It is even estimated that 1 in 2000 females are born without a hymen. 

Therefore, the absence or presence of an intact hymen is not a reliable indicator of sexual activity or virginity as hymen rupture can occur for various reasons unrelated to sexual activity. It is not uncommon and is not necessarily a cause of concern. Some girls may naturally not have the hymen and on the other hand, some may naturally have a hymen that is already stretched or torn due to physical activity or other factors before they become sexually active. Hence, the hymen should not be used as a measure of women’s sexual history and morality. 

Hymenoplasty & regaining virginity 

Hymenoplasty, also known as hymen repair surgery, is a surgical procedure that is performed with a purpose to reconstruct or repair the hymen. It is termed as revirgination. This procedure is typically done for cultural, religious or personal reasons. However, it is not medically necessary. 

While hymenoplasty can reconstruct the hymen, it cannot actually “restore virginity” in the traditional sense. Virginity is a social construct and belief that refers to a person who has not engaged in sexual intercourse. An intact hymen that bleeds during first intercourse is thought to be a proof of virginity and lost only at first intercourse. Although it is not a medical or scientific definition of virginity, it is a personal and cultural belief. 

Since the term virginity and hymen are interconnected socially and losing one’s virginity before marriage is a taboo in our Indian society, many women undergo hymen reconstruction surgery. 

How it is performed

This surgery should only be performed by a skilled plastic surgeon. It can be performed months or years after losing virginity. During the surgery, the torn hymen edges are stitched together in layers so that the tissues can grow and take back the appearance of a natural hymen which will even bleed on the first sexual penetration. In order to achieve virgin-like form, the vaginal walls are also tightened in some cases.

Why a woman undergoes hymenoplasty: -

• If they are born without the hymen
• To avoid social and personal embarrassment as it is connected with virginity
• To feel rejuvenated and young again
• To get over with devastating memories of sexual assault

This surgery is performed under local anesthesia and you will be discharged on the same day possibly after 6 or 7 hours. The time span it takes is typically 40 minutes to one hour. You will be having dissolvable sutures. The hymen actually has a secondary layer that will be sown up to cover the torn skin. As it grafts together, the hymen will appear intact. At times, there are no hymenal remnants or the available parts that can be sutured. Then a new hymen can be created using the vaginal mucosal tissue or lip of the vagina. It is quite a safe procedure. You will be sent home after the surgery. You will be able to go to work the very next day. Mostly, all the patients recover fully within a week or two and can start their sexual life within four to six weeks.

Moreover, you will not be having any scar after the surgery. Thus, it is impossible to tell the difference between a recreated hymen and a virgin hymen. 

As a result, this surgery helps to regain the social symbol of virginity as our communities consider hymen to be a proof of sexual status. Its rupture before marriage is not just a taboo but also can bring a social and personal disaster. Hymenoplasty, in such situations, can save the well-being of a girl and the whole family. 

What is the cost of hymenoplasty?

The cost of hymenoplasty can vary depending on various factors, such as the location of the clinic, the experience and skill of the surgeon, hospitalization charges, the technique & complexity of the procedure, and additional diagnostic tests also. In general, the cost of hymenoplasty can range from 20,000 to 25,000 INR. You must bear in mind that the final cost may vary. 

It is important to note that hymenoplasty is considered as a cosmetic surgery and is not typically covered by insurance. Patients should be prepared to pay for the procedure out of pocket. Additionally, patients should be cautious of clinics or surgeons offering very low prices, as this could indicate lower quality of care or lack of experience. 

Conclusion

The decision to undergo hymenoplasty should be personal and should be made after having a thorough discussion with a qualified and experienced plastic surgeon that can understand your needs and can explain the procedure, its risks, and its potential outcomes. You can easily get in touch with one such surgeon through our website with just sending an email or a whatsapp message.